Among San Diego’s Few RN-Led Doula Providers
How Much Crying Is Normal?
In the first 6-8 weeks:
• Crying often peaks
• Evening fussiness is common
• Baby's may cry up to 3–5 hours per day
• Crying doesn’t always mean something is wrong
Crying doesn’t magically end at 8 weeks.
It often changes form:
• Overtiredness patterns
• 8–12 week developmental leaps
• Early sleep fragmentation
• Reflux/Gas that becomes more obvious
• Feeding inefficiencies that compound over time
Developmental crying is a normal early phase where babies cry more as their nervous system matures.
It often peaks around 6–8 weeks, may cluster in the evening, and can occur even when a baby is fed, changed, and otherwise healthy.
When Crying Needs a Closer Look
Most newborn crying is developmental. But it's not unusual for it to deserve a more careful evaluation.
You may want a closer look if your baby has:
• Difficulty feeding or staying latched
• Poor weight gain or frequent spit-up
• Persistent back arching or stiffness
• Fever or unusual lethargy
• Breathing changes or color changes
• Crying that feels different than usual
Trust your instinct. If something feels off, it’s worth assessing.
Knowing what’s normal and what needs attention can make all the difference.
What Changes When a Nurse Assesses the Crying
We get it, often times excessive crying can be overwhelming and can leave you feeling helpless. That's why we're here. We can give you a break and help sort out the source of the crying.
We can assess:
• Feeding mechanics and intake
• Weight trends and hydration
• Signs of gas, reflux or discomfort
• Jaundice and skin tone
• Safe sleep positioning
• Your postpartum recovery as well
Persistent crying has causes.
Our in-home Postpartum RN assessment identifies contributing factors and gives you a clear, structured plan forward for calmer days ahead.
Mari V. RN, BSN
Labor & Delivery / Postpartum Nurse / Doula
What truly stood out was how amazing Mari was with our newborn-especially when it came to feeding. Mari patiently guided us through feeding techniques, helped troubleshoot challenges, and taught us essential newborn practices that made a huge difference during those early days at home. She never rushed me and always made sure I felt supported, reassured, and empowered as a new mother.
Laurissa L.
First time Mom
Mari has a gentle, kind spirit and a wealth of knowledge when it comes to pregnancy, birth and postpartum. She would be an absolute gift to anyone looking for extra support as they navigate the 4th trimester.
Amanda B. CNM (Midwife)
I feel more confident, informed, and supported as a mom because of her, and I only wish I had hired her while preparing for delivery and during those early postpartum weeks. She is an incredible resource for any family navigating pregnancy, delivery, and postpartum.
Jane R.
First time mom
